Posts Tagged ‘woman’

A man & woman: The courtship

April 22nd, 2009

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Ah, the excitement, the chase, the mystery. Courtship is actually a very analytical step in every relationship. It s when a couple gets to know each other better but like most new things, uncertainty ususally sets in. Doubt in oneself and in the partner creeps in, especially when he or she spots another attractive looking individual and feels guilty about it. “Am I losing the passion?” he/she wonders without realizing that this is actually normal for everyone.

The key to a meaningful relationship during courtship is intimacy and passion. Now if the man or woman loses interest in this matter, it can pull them even further apart. To be intimate, a couple has to be open about their problems and doubts. Women especially, tend to keep mum in a relationship rather than talk for fear of ruining the passion. There is real pain, however, when a relationship ends without being open about it in the first place.

A man & woman : What is he thinking?

April 22nd, 2009

Do you know what is in his mind right now? Who knows what a man is thinking about beneath that veneer of sports, cars and work? In terms of relationships, it’s quite simple. He is secretive and keeps his feelings to himself. He wants commitment but may not want to show it.

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The man especially if he is Asian, is not that outspoken when it comes to matters of relationships. He desires intimacy but won’t take the necessary steps to cross the bridge to meet the woman in the middle. The man tends to put his emotions on ice, and reserves his passion for sports cars and work.

If he views his relationship like his other passions, he believes he has the answer to everything… a solution for every problem. Being open about it, however, is near possible to most men.