Posts Tagged ‘relationship’

A man & woman: The courtship

April 22nd, 2009

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Ah, the excitement, the chase, the mystery. Courtship is actually a very analytical step in every relationship. It s when a couple gets to know each other better but like most new things, uncertainty ususally sets in. Doubt in oneself and in the partner creeps in, especially when he or she spots another attractive looking individual and feels guilty about it. “Am I losing the passion?” he/she wonders without realizing that this is actually normal for everyone.

The key to a meaningful relationship during courtship is intimacy and passion. Now if the man or woman loses interest in this matter, it can pull them even further apart. To be intimate, a couple has to be open about their problems and doubts. Women especially, tend to keep mum in a relationship rather than talk for fear of ruining the passion. There is real pain, however, when a relationship ends without being open about it in the first place.

A man & woman : What is he thinking?

April 22nd, 2009

Do you know what is in his mind right now? Who knows what a man is thinking about beneath that veneer of sports, cars and work? In terms of relationships, it’s quite simple. He is secretive and keeps his feelings to himself. He wants commitment but may not want to show it.

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The man especially if he is Asian, is not that outspoken when it comes to matters of relationships. He desires intimacy but won’t take the necessary steps to cross the bridge to meet the woman in the middle. The man tends to put his emotions on ice, and reserves his passion for sports cars and work.

If he views his relationship like his other passions, he believes he has the answer to everything… a solution for every problem. Being open about it, however, is near possible to most men.

A man & woman : The relationship between both

December 23rd, 2008

This morning as I was writing my blog, I had a long chit-chat with my senior back in high school. She was complaining about her boyfriend… the big question is when is he going to pop the question that all couples been waiting… ” Will you marry me? ”

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People do crazy stuff when they are in love. But sometimes it becomes so complicated when it comes to love and passion between men and women. A lot has been said and written  about relationships but among the many points raised, one fact always sticks out – that a man and a woman are very different from each other, like strangers perched at two ends of a bridge either side unwilling to move to the other.

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But all it takes to meet in the middle is a little understanding, openness and a lot of communication. In a way, the woman will always try to change her partner to make him come to her side. I’m not being bias. I am a woman. womenresist( Please note that this picture is a bit exaggerating… I just thought it was kinda funny… LOL )

The man however believe he can always build a shorter bridge and fix any problems. The fact is neither the man nor the woman knows anything about the bridge that divides them. That itself may be the very solution to this dilemma.

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Okay fellas, this man and woman section will be continued as I gotta do some housework.

Cya!