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Love yourself,if you don’t…who will?

June 14th, 2008

First and foremost, I’d like to stress out that self-esteem is really2 important.I once lost my self-esteem and i was doomed.Seriously you need to have a high self-esteem to be happy and to be able walk your way through wonderful life.

Here are some tips:

  1. Make a list of what you like about yourself.Recognize and appreciate your abilities as well as positive personality traits.
  2. Learn to love and accept yourself as you are.Accept gracefully what you cannot change.
  3. Do not compare yourself unfavorably with others.You are unique.
  4. Improve your personal appearance by dressing differently, losing weight or changing your hairstyle.
  5. Avoid labelling yourself or indulging in self-criticism.
  6. Practice positive self-talk.
  7. Don’t worry about things beyond your control.Have faith in God and hope for the best.
  8. Do something good for others.You will feel good about yourself when you assist others.
  9. Never belittle yourself.Accept compliment with a “thank you” and a smile.
  10. Ignore any unkind or unjustified comments made by others about you.Unkind remarks are often compliments in disguise or mere manifestations of envy.
  11. Empty your mind of hatred,envy or guilt.Fill it with positive thoughts.Remember that happiness is a state of mind.